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    The knower of the Atman wears no outward mark
    and is unattached to external things, resting
    on this body without identification, and
    experiences all sorts of sense-objects as they
    come through other's wish, like a child.
               -Shankara, Vivekacudamani 539


Richard Bayer says:

 On Good Friday, 28 March 1975, Sathya Sai Baba gave a ninety minute
 talk to 60 foreigners at His residence in Whitefield. It is Swami's
 wish that the full text of His discourse, translated by Dr.
 Bhagavantam, be printed and distributed to the Westerners here, as
 well as to all Sai Baba centers in the Western countries.

 This was not an ordinary group `interview' or general discourse. Swami
 called in the foreigners in order to give them firsthand information
 on what is expected of them when they come to stay at Prashanthi
 Nilayam or Brindavan.  Although, in a general way, the type of conduct
 and behaviour prescribed for visitors here has always been known, in
 the past three years ['72-'75] there has developed a situation in
 which some foreigners took up a life style and certain habits which
 Swami considers completely unacceptable for devotees.  Because the
 foreigners as a group were not acting in a way that is appropriate in
 India, Swami has kept them at a greater distance than previously, when
 the foreigners had taken an active and positive role in the life of
 the ashram.

 Swami has expressed His wish on several occasions that the foreigners
 once again take advantage of His close guidance and the full 
 facilities of the ashram, provided they are willing to act in complete 
 accordance with the prescribed code of behaviour. With the printing of 
 this text, the conduct expected of foreigners here has been spelled 
 out in clear terms for all to see. Rather than relying only on rumours 
 and on information passed on from other devotees (which may be 
 personal opinion rather than Swami's instruction), all visitors are 
 hereby advised to act fully and only in accordance with the Guidelines 
 published by the ashram itself. A more general explanation of these 
 guidelines is contained in the text of Swami's discourse.

 It is hoped that all visitors will, by their sincere and conscientious
 practice of Swami's instructions, help bring about the type of
 situation which He describes. One should remember that discipline in
 conduct and behaviour is the basis for the strong foundation of
 character, self-control and will that is essential for the proper,
 harmonious growth of our spiritual aspect. It is to enable us to reach 
 our spiritual goal, and to develop a community to help serve that end, 
 that these basis `lessons' are being emphasized here.
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                        Sri Sathya Sai Baba speaks:

 "Foreigners who have come here to take the spiritual path, there is no
 need to make any special effort to explain what I wish to say today,
 but you all should try to understand the meaning of human nature. In
 foreign countries, while you are able to have a comfortable life,
 while you are able to command the material comforts, you feel that you
 are lacking peace of mind. And, with great hopes that you will be able 
 to get that peace of mind, you spend a lot of money, and at great 
 personal expense and inconvenience you come all the way to this place. 
 Putting up with so many difficulties, spending so much money, and 
 bearing with so much inconvenience, coming all the way to this 
 country, each one should ask yourself: "What is it that you are taking 
 back with you? What is it that you are acquiring and getting in return 
 for all the inconvenience you are putting up with? In what condition 
 have we come here?  What is it we want to acquire here? Why is it that 
 we have come here? Have we been able to get what we thought we would 
 get by coming here?" This kind of questioning and enquiry, each one 
 should make for oneself every day.

 "If while you are here, you continue to ask for the same kinds of
 pleasure and comfort which you are used to, and in which you live in
 your own country, then what is it that you have come here for? What is
 it that you want to get?  What is the change you are seeking? This is
 something which you should ask yourselves.

 "Pleasures and comforts which relate to the body are not true
 pleasures and comforts. Like men, the pleasures and comforts which we 
 enjoy that relate to the body- sleeping, taking rest, having comfort 
 and pleasure- even the animals and birds are having exactly the same 
 kinds of feelings, pleasures and comforts. Many animals which are at a 
 much lower stage of evolution than man, even they- examples being deer 
 and elephant- have a very peaceful life and they are able to enjoy a 
 certain amount of comfort and peace. It is these animals- deer and 
 elephant- such animals eat food which does not come after killing, 
 food which is prepared without causing harm to any other animal.  Such 
 animals are close to and they have an affinity for human beings in 
 this country. There is also the tradition by which the humans worship 
 such animals which do not eat food obtained by killing. In the same 
 group of animals, there are tigers and cheetahs, animals which kill 
 and which live and get their food by killing. Such animals are kept at 
 a distance from human beings, and they do not go near them. If man, 
 who has to look at all other living creatures with an amount of 
 compassion, if he becomes poorer in qualities than an animal, then
 where is the human nature left in a human being? So if we talk of
 human nature, we should understand human nature as being able to show
 compassion and kindness to every other living thing.
"In this whole context, the most important thing- the first thing which
is of importance to man and to human nature- is his own behaviour.
After that comes discipline; after that comes duty; lastly and finally
comes devotion.  Discipline, duty, devotion and behaviour, these four
things together constitute human nature. This human nature is like a
mansion which rests on these four pillars.

"It is true we are doing our duty these days, but what kind of duty, 
and how are we doing this duty? We are doing it in a machine-like 
manner, like a robot.   If there is a clock, it also performs its duty 
by having its hands go round and round; when  we wind the clock, the 
hands go round and round.  It is doing its duty, but it is doing it 
like a machine.  But the duty we are talking of should be such that 
alongside there is also devotion and discipline. Duty is in the center, 
discipline should be on one side, and devotion should be on the other 
side: these two should act like bodyguards for the duty which we 
perform. If the duty  which we perform is devoid of discipline and 
devoid of devotion, that duty is lifeless; it is like that performed by
a machine.

"Man is not a machine:  He has the aspect of Jiva in him; he has the 
aspect of Atma in him; he has a Divine aspect, and intelligence. All of 
this makes him quite different from a machine. Having so many 
distinguishing qualities in us, if we still conduct ourselves like
animals, then what  is the use  of  having these distinguishing
qualities ?

"The proper study of mankind is man.  The true interpretation of
human nature is to be able to correlate the thought that comes from
your mind, the word that comes from your mouth, and the action that
comes from your hands.  The thought, word and action, these three
should be correlated with each other; this is the basic quality of
human nature.  For example, that is a fan.  The fan has three blades.
If those three blades are just pointing to three different sides, we
don't get a breeze from the fan.  But when these three blades revolve,
we get a breeze.  If we want to get a breeze from the fan, then there
should be coordination between the blades; they should revolve as one
unit.  Our   spiritual heart is like a room.  The three qualities, the
sattva, rajas and tamoguna, are the three blades of the fan.  Our
intelligence is the switch.  The current is our will power. When we
put on the switch of our intelligence, and when we can coordinate
these three qualities within us (these three blades representing the
gunas), then we will get peace, satisfaction and bliss.

"We are not undertaking such coordinated progress.  While
we are in America we think we want to go all the way to India,
and we want to attain spiritual progress- so we come here. But
we do not coordinate our own thinking and our own actions so
as to acquire what we want here. To lead a life which is aimless,
this can be done wherever you are.  Should we come all this
distance to acquire this (spiritual progress) and yet not be able
to acquire it because we do not coordinate our own thoughts and
words ?

"Not only that. People who belong to a certain country, having been born 
in that country, either for the culture or traditions or honor of that 
country, such people, who are citizens of that country should make an 
attempt to get respect and dignity for iat country.  If people say 
they have come from America or from India and people ask them, "does 
America mean this ? does India mean this ?" all the dignity and the 
name and reputation of that country depends upon, it goes up or down on
the basis of the conduct and behavior of its people.  The history of a
nation, or its traditions, these depend upon the behavior and conduct
of its citizens.

"It is not possible for any one to carry on his life like a drop of 
oil put upon the surface of water, in an isolated manner, as if he has 
nothing to do with his surroundings.  Alongside us, there is society.  
The well-being of society and the regulations that belong to society 
are something which we have to accept and which we have to experience.  
We are born in society, we live in society, and ail kinds of comforts 
and requirements are met and drawn from society; it is not possible for 
an individual to live isolated and separated from society.  While we 
remain as part of society and yet go contrary to its dictates. it 
simply means that we are promoting the animal nature in us.  If you 
want to live as an individual, and as an isolated person, yes, go  to a 
forest, isolate  yourself from all society and live as an isolated
individual. But if you want to live in society and are a part of it,
then you cannot go contrary to its dictates.

"There are two things here which one should take note of. One is the 
individual freedom, and the other is the fundamental right.  We have to
lead our lives as a compromise between the individual freedom and the
fundamental right. But now we are giving importance to  individual
freedom  and we are forgetting  the importance of fundamental right.

"When we go into the company of elders, when we go into a 
congregation of people who are learned, when we go to look at those who 
are scholars and whose darshan we would like to have, we should ask 
ourselves in what manner we should conduct ourselves when we are part 
of a group of that kind ?  In the presence of elders, it is very 
necessary to have a certain amount of humility.  All things you do, 
like sitting, talking, the clothes you wear, all these things 
contribute to your behavior and conduct in the presence of elders.  By 
this kind of behaviour we get respect for ourselves.  On the contrary, 
if our behavior and habits are not appropriate to the society in which 
we live, then the society does give any respect; they will push you out 
of society.  When you act in such a way that society itself pushes you 
out, then how does the leader of a spiritual path, how do the spiritual 
principles keep you, and how do they attract you ?

"Not only this, we should also make an attempt to gradually diminish the 
kind of attachment which we have.  This kind of attachment, if it is 
allowed to grow, simply causes you to be bound, it creates a bondage to 
you.  You have left your country, have cut away your attachment with 
your country, you have left and cut away your attachment to your 
parents, friends and relations, and so on; you  have come so far, 
cutting away all attachments.   Why come here and promote new 
attachments and connections after cutting away  all  your old  ones ?  
There must be a limit to all the attachments which you cultivate here.  
If one says hello, you simply say hello.  If one says good-bye, you 
also say good-bye. Conversation must be limited and it should not be 
promoted in place of the attachments you have left behind.  If someone 
is ill and is deserving of help, yes, you can give him help to the 
extent to which it is required; but there is an end of it.  You cannot 
promote attachment by way of helping him.  If you promote attachment by 
serving another person and helping a deserving person, that is not 
going to help promote your spiritual aspect.

"Not  only that.  Women  come here.  When women come here, it is a 
different matter if they come with their husbands. When women come here 
and they begin to develop attachments with people to whom they are not 
married, then that kind of attachment begins to grow and to cause 
difficulties. This causes imbalance of a physiological nature and it is 
not going to help you to promote your spiritual aspect. I have been 
mentioning this several times for the past two or three years.  People
who come here as single persons, as single women or as single men,
they begin to talk to each other and they develop such attachments
by which they become mare and more distant from the purpose for
which they have come to India.  They begin to cultivate aspects which
are quite far from  the aims and objects which brought them to India.

 "Not only this, some young people, who are still in their youth, have 
some fantastic ideas which they confuse with devotion.  They think that 
is devotion, but true symptoms of devotion  are not to be seen in these 
young people.   They think it  is devotion, they call it devotion, but 
it is a deep ocean into which they are sinking.  They have a japamala.  
or they sit in meditation, and they appear to concentrate;  but in a 
moment their concentration is disturbed and they get into some kind of 
worldly attachment.  This kind of instability quickly  and in a few 
moments leads them into a path which is not correct, and  they are led 
astray from the spiritual  path.  Bad looks, bad thoughts, bad talk, 
bad hearing, bad action, all these five sensory organs should be 
stopped completely.  In the first instance. if you can correct what you 
see, and if you can correct what you listen to, and if you can also 
control what you say, then automatically the thoughts will be 
controlled.

"In the quest for spiritual liberation, when same young people come to 
Sai Baba, they accept Sai Baba's teachings and they follow Sai Baba's 
path.  When they go to someone  else, they accept his teachings and 
they follow his path. So  they go on,  quickly jumping from one place 
to another, they go on changing their own attitudes  and beliefs.  
Thereby, they are never steady and they get into terrible confusion, 
and in the end they wind up in confusion and not in attaining any 
spiritual liberation.  Slow and steady wins the race.   Even in the 
beginning,  mind is like a mad monkey.  To the mind, which originally 
has the  qualities of a mad monkey, if you add to that this kind of 
jumping and bumping from one place to another, how are you going to get 
steadiness and peace of mind?

"Those who come from the Western countries, you are very anxious to get
a quick result and a good result.  But you are not making any attempt
to  make a quick correction in  your path and in your behavior. When
you quickly correct your path and defects, then quick results will
follow.  But without bringing about changes and transformations within
us, how do we expect to get quick results ? The kind of seed which you
put in the ground will determine the type of tree you will get.  When
your thoughts are good, then your acts will also be good.  If thoughts
are good,  why is it that the action is bad ?

"Yes, for the past two years, I have not been granting interviews to 
people who come from Western countries as single individuals (not in
groups).   Maybe you are not  aware of the reason for this.  Maybe you
are misinterpreting this, thinking, "we have come such a long distance
and we have been waiting here for such a long time, why is it that Sai
Baba is not granting us interviews ?"   Such questions are arising in
the minds of some of you.  When I grant an interview to young girls or
boys when they come to Me in their youth, their conduct and their
behavior is not satisfactory.  The reason for this is they have the
affliction of an amount of mental weakness in them. I am mentioning
this to you because you are a small group, and in a limited way I am
telling you this.  In India, the custom, tradition and in fact the code
of behavior is such that when men and women are  together, they stay
separate and  they do not mix.   In  a Western country from the very
beginning, they are used to mixing and moving together, and therefore
mixing is not going to cause any surprise.  But in India. the situation 
and the accepted custom are quite contrary to that.

"The ensuing conference is a World conference and  people will come 
from all countries. Unless we find a way and unless you are able to 
correct the questionable behavior of these young boys we are not going 
to admit them to the World Conference at Prashanthi Nilayam. Such boys 
and girls are not true devotees; they are completely lazy.  They don't 
work and they don't do their duty.  They are so lazy that they simply 
collect money from various people and sit idle, and carry on their 
lives in a lazy manner.  Laziness is just rust and  dust. For such 
people, there is no place in Prashanti Nilayam.  There is room in 
Prashanti Nilayam only for those who accept discipline of Prashanti 
Nilayam and who accept the code of conduct prescribed in Prashanti 
Nilayam.  If people do not want to subscribe to that, there is no room 
for them in Prashanthi Nilayam. They can go anywhere they like, 
wherever they like.

"Many people come from  Western countries who are very good.  They come 
with great devotion, they come with feelings from the depths of their 
hearts, and they want to improve themselves.  So  many  good  people 
cme from Western countries, but in this whole group, just because 
there are four or five who are bad and whose behavior is not acceptable 
at Prashanthi Nilayam, they are simply ruining the opportunities  which 
the whole group can have, and wishes to have.

"Not only that.  Some people say. "Swami is coming to me as an inner 
voice and He is telling me this and He is telling me that."  All these 
are simply symptoms of hysteria; Swami will NEVER do such a thing.
This is also the result of a kind of mental weakness.  It is only when,
as a very first step, they are able to get rid of such weakness of the
mind and put themselves along the right path, that  such  people will
be  given a  place in the ensuing World Conference.

"Spiritual aspects, and spiritual capacity,  and the capacity to
meditate, are something which you cannot get through drugs. These
are things which have to come from within one's own self, from
one's own heart; they cannot be put in from outside by some
artificial method.  Mary foreign youngsters in Prashanti Nilayam
have been using various kinds of drugs, including LSD and similar
drugs.  By using ANY drugs, the little physical strength we have
in us disappears, and the mental strength we have also disappears and
the mind becomes weak. In the end we simply become weak, drug-addicted
persons; our minds become weak, and we become sick.


 "Not only that, having come to India, men make friendships with Indian 
 girls, and girls start friendships with Indian men. That kind of thing 
 is not permitted in India and is utterly contrary to the spiritual 
 path as it is understood in India.  If such people stay in the ashram,
 they will give a bad name to the whole ashram.

 "Spirituality is nut to be achieved through love which is associated 
with lust; it must come from PURE love which has no tinge of lust in 
it. The kind of love that leads to a spiritual path is selfless love - 
expansion love.  Love that is tinged with lust is a contracting love.  
The kind of contracting love which comes from associating with lust 
will not help your spiritual progress.  The reason for this is that 
selfishness is a very bad quality.  We should develop broad aspects, we 
should have a broad mind, and that can be done only by developing 
selfless love.  Duty without love is deplorable; duty with love is 
desirable; love without duty is Divine.  We should be able to give pure 
love.  We should not change this  pure love into  something which is
connected with worldly matters and worldly aspects.

"There is one other matter.  If somebody  says Sai Baba's powers have 
been given to him, then we run to him.  Sai Baba's powers are such that 
they are not given to anybody else.  Nobody has the ability to  take 
powers from Sai Baba, nor the ability to give them to someone else.  
Sai Baba's powers are not given like that, and you should not be led 
away by such statements.  Each one's power is within him ; it is not 
possible to give such power to another person.  In this manner, by 
allowing a weak mind to get control over us, if we begin running from 
place to place, when are we going to get strength of mind, and control 
our own mind ?  We must be able to follow one thought, one path.  One 
does not have to search for spiritual power, going around the world and 
spending a lot of money. Be in your own house, develop   it in 
yourself; such spiritual power is in YOU! You don't have to run for it 
here and there. God is not external; God is not outside you; God is 
inside you.   You are not a man, you are God yourself.  You are not one 
person, but three : the one you think you are (physical) ; the one 
others think you are (mental); and the one you really are is God.  
Don't be under the delusion that God is somewhere and you have to 
search for Him.  God is in you, and when you are able to realize that, 
and when you are able to develop the spiritual power from within you, 
then you will see God.  You are going in the path of worldly 
consciousness; you are not taking the path of superconsciousness.  When 
you take the path of superconsciousness, you will get realization, and
you will be able to see the Truth.

"The first thing you have to do is develop self-confidence.  It is 
such people who have no confidence in their own self who begin to 
wander about and to waver, and take to various different paths. When 
you take your body to different places  and when  you go about moving 
aimlessly, the mind also goes to different places.  The first thing is 
to steady your physical body.  If the body is moving all the time, then 
the mind is also moving.  If you have a container filled with water, if 
the container is continually moving, then the contents will continually 
be moving. So in this context, we should not keep moving our bodies and 
our limbs in an aimless manner: this is a very essential part of our 
practice of meditation.  We should sit quiet and the body should be 
steady.  Why do we ask people to sit straight and to sit quiet in 
meditation ?  Because when the body is  straight and  quiet the mind 
inside is also straight and quiet.  If you cannot control your body,
how can you control your mind?  The FIRST thing is to control your
body by having all the limbs and body organs in a steady manner.  The
basis for the mind wandering is that your physical  body is  also
continually wandering.   So the first thing you have to do is it to
give up this continual wandering of the physical body.

"Many people think that concentration is the same thing as 
meditation, but there is no such connection between concentration and 
meditation.  Concentration is something which is below your senses, 
whereas meditation is something which is above your senses.  But many 
are under the false impression that concentration is identical with 
meditation, and they take to a wrong path.  Concentration is something 
which we use involuntarily in our daily, normal, routine life. Just 
look at this, I am now reading  the  newspaper.  My  eyes  are  looking 
at the  letters, my hand is holding the paper.  My intelligence is 
thinking now. Mind is also thinking.  Thus when the eyes are doing 
their work, when the hand is doing its work, when the intelligence is 
doing its work, and the mind is also doing its work, and there is the 
coordinated action of the mind, intelligence, hand and eyes. I am able 
to get the contents of the newspaper.  It means. if I want to get at 
the matter that is contained in the newspaper, all these enumerated 
senses are concentrated and they are all coordinated and are working on
the newspaper.

 "Not only this, if one wants to drive a car, unless one has 
concentration, one cannot drive a car on the road.  All the normal 
routines, like walking, talking, reading, writing, eating, these things 
we do only as a result of concentration. if concentration like this is 
part and parcel of your daily life, then what is it that we practise to 
get concentration ?   What we have to practise is something which is 
beyond these normal senses.  We must rise from being below the senses 
(that is the state of concentration) to the senses (that is, the middle 
position, called contemplation); and from there we must rise above the 
senses, to what is called meditation.  Between concentration  and 
meditation there is a border area which covers both and that is the 
area of contemplation.   To be in that area of contemplation is to free 
yourself of worldly  attachments.  If  you  break  away  all worldly 
attachments - all the routine attachments in the world -  then you will 
enter the region of contemplation.  When you have completely broken
away ALL your attachments, you break through this area of contemplation 
and you get into the area of meditation.

"These steps can also be described as starting from self-confidence, and 
then getting self-satisfaction, and then self-sacrifice, and the last 
step is self-realization. The ultimate step of self-realization depends 
upon the base of self-confidence. You must  therefore develop  as a 
first  step confidence in your own  self. Without having and developing 
confidence in your own self, all the time you are talking of some power 
being with someone and some other power being with someone else, if in 
this way you travel all the time and depend upon power which is with 
someone else, when are  YOU going to acquire any power and confidence 
in your OWN self.  Peace and bliss are within you, they are not 
something which is external to you.  You may think of going to the 
Himalayas for getting peace. Yes, your body may go to the Himalayas for 
getting peace, but your mind may be left behind in the city.  How are 
you going to get peace ? You have brought your body to India; but 
still, if you have the same habits which you are used to in America, 
what is the use of bringing the body to India ?  Body is not the 
essential thing. The transformation should come in your mind, the 
change should come in your mind.  Many people collect a lot of 
information, they take a lot of information, but they do not use it to 
bring about transformation of their own self.  Information is useless, 
but the transformation in you is important.  You can go on mentioning 
the names of many eatables.  Are you going to relieve your hunger in 
this way ?  But even if you actually eat one thing only in practice, 
you are going to relieve your hunger.  Therefore, instead of saying so 
many things in your talk or in your speech (all that is simply book 
knowledge), if you are abbe to put into practice one of the things you 
say, that is going to be useful.

 "Having come to India, you must realize that if you are able to 
clean your body. to keep a clean body, then also your mind will become 
clean.  If one keeps his body dirty, then the minn is also going to be 
dirty.  There is a close connection between the body and the mind.  We 
go to an exhibition and we look at something.  When the eyes look at 
something, the mind develops the desire to acquire that thing because 
the eyes have already seen it.  It is the tradition of this country, 
and what has been taught by Vedanta, is cleanliness of the body and 
cleanliness of the mind.  The cleanliness of both is implied in what 
they do: they have bath, they sit for meditation - one is for cleaning 
the body, the other is for cleaning the mind.   If we want to use a 
vessel for drinking something, we clean the  vessel  inside as well as 
outside.   In  the same  manner  as in  the  analogy, body is like the 
vessel.  in the vessel of this body, we are putting the juice of the 
Divine power; we want to drink the juice of the Divine power.  Regard 
the body as a temple.   Regard the body as a vessel which you want to 
use, and keep it clean inside and outside.  If you keep it clean 
outside, then you will be able to keep it clean inside also.  The right 
kind of help that you should have far self-realization is to have 
inner cleanliness and outer cleanliness as well.

 "When we enter the spiritual path, then one should be able to 
recognize a clear difference between man and woman.  One should not 
have too much relationship with women.  When you are in family life, 
you must do your duty; there is nothing wrong with the householder 
fulfilling his duty.  But  you should not have too many relationships 
with people who are not connected with your family.  In Western 
countries people do not accept this code of behavior.   If you want to 
stay at Prashanti Nilayam, you have to accept the code of conduct 
prescribed by Prashanthi Nilayam; you have to accept the norms that are 
prescribed at Prashanti Nilayam.  You should respect elders, you should 
show humility; you should not run here and there like race horses. You 
should conduct themselves like women, and they should not run about like 
racehorses.  It is only when they are able to accept these norms that 
they will be respected.

"In daily life, we see so many men going and talking to women, and 
women going and talking to men in public.  This is something which we 
will not accept in Prashanthi Nilayam.  It may be that there is nothing 
wrong with what is being spoken between a man and a woman, but how is 
the onlooker to take it? An onlooker gives his own interpretation, and 
his own mind gets disturbed because of how he interprets what he sees.  
Here WE have the responsibility for the bad thoughts of the third 
person: the responsibility falls on us.  We should develop such conduct 
for ourselves that is not going to be a source of bad thoughts in a 
third person.  If there is a need to talk and carry on such a 
conversation, do so, but in the privacy of your own room.


"These are very important injunctions on the spiritual path.  If you 
think that just by sitting in a bhajan, or saying "Sai Ram !  Sai Ram, 
Sai Ram !" or by turning a japamala you are acquiring spiritual 
progress, that is not right.  You may give up your bhajan, you may give 
up saying "Sai Ram ! Sai Ram ! Sai Ram !", you may give up your 
meditation; but cleanse your mind and cleanse your heart, and develop 
PURE love; these things are very basic for spiritual progress.

"You have  come from  long distances, you have given  up several 
comforts, you are  putting up with  various  difficulties.  You have 
come with great hopes and ambitions, and if you realize that, and if 
you realize the code of conduct that is prescribed in Prashanthi 
Nilayam- Swami is ready to give you all opportunities for spiritual 
practice, and all opportunities for your own sadhana and practice.  
Swami will take you very close, and will create a situation in which 
you will feel happiness and bliss in  your own hearts.  From today, 
push away such conduct which has been described as  unacceptable; from 
today, develop good behavior and good conduct.  Have a feeling in your 
heart that Swami is your father, Swami is your mother; have such a 
feeling, develop such a feeling.  If you can entertain such sacred 
ideas, ideas of fatherhood and ideas of motherly nature, then you will 
also be happy, and Swami will be happy.  On the other hand. if you have 
foolish ideas, and if you promote and develop these foolish ideas, then 
not only will you become useless, and be thrown down into confusion, 
but you will also spoil the name of Swami and the ashram.   The basic 
principles are  Brotherhood of Man, and Fatherhood of God; this is what 
you should  remember.   In this manner, conduct yourselves in 
Prashanthi Nilayam, according to the statements which I have just now 
made.  Swami will give you an enormous amount of opportunities in
Prashanthi Nilayam, and all facilities for your  sadhana.

"Have  no   connection  with  people  who  are  outside  the ashram.  
Wherever there is good, there is bad; where there is light, alongside 
it there is also darkness. It is possible that some people will tell 
you that Swami has given them such and such a power.  Swami has given 
them messages, you come with us, you come here and go there, and so on.  
But have single unwavering faith and conduct your life with this single 
unshakable faith.  Be clean, live well, wear good dress, and live in 
Prashanti Nilayam; I will create all comforts you need in order to live 
happily there. When you are living in Prashanti Nilayam, you should be 
ideal examples to others who come there for the first time.  Having 
lived for years in Prashanti Nilayam, if your conduct and your 
appearance and behavior set a bad example for newcomers, then you will 
also be committing the sin of misleading newcomers. Those who have 
already been in Prashanti Nilayam, if you are able to give good 
guidance to newcomers, if you tell them "this is how you should live" 
and if you set an example to them and show them how to live properly, 
then you would have done a good act,  and you would  have  benefitted 
the newcomers. If those who have lived for years in Prashanti Nilayam 
go astray, when  newcomers come they will follow these old people who 
have been there for some time, and they will be led astray.  What is 
the use of having lived for years in Prashanti Nilayam if are leading
astray the newcomers, as well as yourselves ?

"If someone  comes  and tells you  that Prashanti Nilayam's code of 
conduct is like this, you should not do this, and you reply saying 
"Swami is telling within me, He is giving an inner voice and you have 
nothing to tell me," this is not right; this is simply weakness. Swami 
never does such things.  If one claims such a thing, do not have any 
belief in such a claim.  WHATEVER SWAMI  WANTS  TO  SAY  HE WILL SAY
DIRECTLY.  Swami  is not  going to  say anything  indirectly from
within, or from some place that one cannot see.

"Not only this, amongst the women, there are  some whose conduct and 
behavior is not acceptable, is not right.  When they look at men, they 
begin to smile or laugh; this is not right.  Such people will be sent 
out of the ashram.  This is not good.  Why look at someone else ?  This 
only leads to such behavior.  Don't look at  others;  don't  waste your 
time; look  at yourself. Sit down and meditate and do your own sadhana.  
If you correct yourselves in this manner,  then Swami  will create any 
amount  of  opportunities by which one can take to a spiritual path.

"A World Conference is proposed to take place in November. For that 
World Conference, we are expecting a number of people to come from 
America.  When such people  come, those who have already been here and 
those who have lived here for years should be able to guide them.  They 
should be able to set examples for them, and give them suitable 
guidance, and put them on the right path.  If you check yourselves from 
now, and put yourselves on the right path, then I will give you the 
responsibility of doing some work and guiding those who come as 
visitors at the time of the World Conference.  Ladies will be given 
responsible work to handle lady delegates on the ladies side, and men 
will be  given similar responsibilities  on the  men's  side.  At least 
from today, regard the past as passed, and forget the past. At least in 
the future, set right your behavior, and be an example for the 
newcomers, and put them along the right path.  Then you will have done
good to yourself, and you will be doing good to people who come afresh.

"I have taken too much time, but you have come from a long dstance;
you have come with great hope and with great devotion and with great
ambition. I hope you will be able to achieve your hopes and your
ambitions, and you will be able to get the spiritual progress which you
have come here for.  I am blessing you that you will be able to do
this.

"I am always ready to help you in this spiritual path.  But I am
hoping that you will change your conduct and your behavior, and
your life should be one of an ideal example in the future.


[excerpted from Preparation for the Presence, a ninety-minute discourse
given on Good Friday, March 28, 1975 by Sri Sathya Sai Baba to 60
western guests at His residence in Whitefield. Translated by Dr.
Bhagavantum. Printed and published by Sri Sathya Sai Press &
Publication Co-operative Society Ltd., 82 Annie Besant Road, Worli,
Bombay 400 018. Forward by Richard Bayer.]

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